Episode 34: 3 Reasons Why Your Husband Should Not Change

Post author By Chavonne Perotte
Post date May 14, 2019

So today, we are exploring a very common desire that most wives have. Even though everyone knows you can’t change a person, many of us wish some things about our husbands were different. We send hints, and then move to complaining if he’s not getting the message. Add to that, we live in a society that has fed the belief that if someone loves you they will change “for you.”

I want to prove that it is not in your best interest for your husband to change for you. It’s never your responsibility to change your husband or to convict him to be different than who he currently is. There are three very specific and very real reasons why this is true. Listen in to learn what they are.

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By Chavonne Perotte

Trained Researcher. Empathetic Listener. Passionate Speaker. Goal guider. Relationship Builder.
Dr. Chavonne Perotte is a public health researcher who, over the past 10 years, has developed a range of curricula on healthy relationships, and conducted educational trainings, interactive workshops, and large conferences. Chavonne received her doctorate in public health from the Johns Hopkins University and focused her research on sexual health. It was there that she discovered her passion for hearing people’s stories, writing about their lives and creating solutions for common relationship issues. Chavonne is a dynamic speaker who is able to use her experiences, skills and knowledge to inspire people to take action in their own lives. She is the founder and CEO of RelateABLE, a relationship development and coaching group that guides individuals in creating the relationships they want. She is also the owner of The Glamorous Life Events, a full scale event planning and management firm. An aspiring author, Chavonne is currently working on a book that supports couples in effectively navigating infertility. Chavonne grew up in Northern Virginia and now lives in New Jersey where she enjoys her roles as a wife and new mother.

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