Take the first step together and open the door to a trusting relationship again.
…feels like your marriage is now all a lie
…wants to learn to trust again, but don’t know how
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Couple’s Coaching is the answer you’ve been looking for.
It all starts with recognizing some of the factors that have led to the trust being broken. What caused one person to stray from the relationship, and what need the outside relationship was fulfilling. We also spend a lot of time talking through the impact of the infidelity or betrayal on the other person, what hurts them the most and what they feel they need in order to trust again. Lastly, we find the opportunities to create a stronger and better marriage.
Through Couple’s Coaching, we will uncover your roadblocks and identify the steps you can take to move forward in a positive direction right away. The approach is very active where you will complete activities individually and together.
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Click here to Get Started with the 4-Week Couple’s Coaching Program now.
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Your Couple’s Coaching Program starts with 4 sessions that address the most important issues for rebuilding trust after infidelity or another type of betrayal. Over 4 weeks, I will be your personal coach guiding you as a couple through some of your top marriage issues. Each session includes “pre” coaching material and worksheets that provide you with time to think ahead of time and reflect on the topic we’ll be covering together.
Then we will meet together, during a series of 4, 60-minute phone sessions, where I will provide personal 1-on-1 coaching to move you forward. Additional sessions will be added as necessary and customized to your specific situation.
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Here are some of the topics we’ll cover
Session 1: Turning Points
- uncover the key turning points in your marriage that have impacted the challenges you are facing now so you can gain clarity and mutual understand of their impact
- understand some of the reasons why the infidelity or betrayal happened so you can move forward with a plan in place to prevent it from happening again
- identify the aspects of your marriage you would like to reclaim or recreate so you can focus on the actions that will provide the results you want
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Session 2: Less Pain, More Trust
- gain clarity on the specific aspects of the infidelity or betrayal that are most painful to the hurt spouse why those aspects are so painful
- understand and communicate what actions will be most helpful in rebuilding trust and healing the hurt that has been caused
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Session 3: Recreating Your Story
- examine the thoughts you currently hold about your spouse and your marriage so you notice important patterns
- challenge those thoughts by creating new beliefs that focus on always looking for the positive in your spouse’s actions, intentions and words
- develop a deep appreciation for the differences you have and how those differences benefit your marriage and help you grow as individuals
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Session 4: Moving Forward
- identify the ways the infidelity or betrayal can help you create a stronger and better marriage
- uncover the steps that will be necessary to move forward with true forgiveness so that resentment does not build up
- examine and shift your thoughts about the infidelity or betrayal in ways that enable you to see your marriage in a whole new light
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Your 4 Session Couple’s Coaching Package: $200
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Book by Monday, April 4th, 2016
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Here’s What My Clients Have Said
“I actually feel like having these modules is like having a security blanket. I’ve ready over my notes 7 or 8 times. I’m constantly reviewing what I did in my head. After our call, I hit a rough patch with my mother. Then I realized, oh my God, it’s not just about my husband! It was great, I was able to relate differently to my mom. I love that this is not just for my mate, but for anyone in my life. It’s about understanding my own expectations, asking, what if it’s just in my manual? It surprised me that not everyone thought like me…it was pretty earth shaking for me. I can chew over the thoughts again, again, and again and knowing that I’ll always have the modules will help me to grow.”
– Janele, Nursing student, mother of 1, married 12 years
“When I think about the material you offer, there is so much there. Before, when I think of my walking out of therapy , we went through a number of sessions where we were only getting information out, and not getting any tools, and we were paying $140 for 50 minutes! Working with you, I always walk away with something to do, a tool to use, or a new way of seeing things.”
– Tanya, Senior director, mom of 2, married 8 years