Ready to have the marriage you dreamed of on your wedding day?
Did you see a person who made your heart melt?
Someone who made you feel like the most beautiful woman in the world?
A man who showered you with attention and affection, who’s love was the best part of your life?
Did you see a marriage that would survive any problems the future could hold?
A bond so strong, nothing would ever tear you apart?
A love that would stand the test of time, because you were determined to make it work?
A marriage that would show the world that true love is really possible?
We all have the same dreams as the music plays and we take those treasured steps to our partner in life.
We all feel those butterflies and hold on to the promises of a forever kind of love.
We all recite our vows, meaning every word, for better for worse…
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But somehow, when the worse starts to come, we begin to lose faith that better could come along again.
When there are more arguments than laughter, we become exhausted and just want to give up.
When there are more disappointments than fulfilled expectations, we wonder if it will really be worth it in the end.
Believe me, I understand. And I can show you the way out.
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- You are tired of the constant arguments and disagreements. Seriously. Every. Single. Thing. Every single thing seems to lead to an argument. It’s this crazy cycle that you just can’t seem to find a way to get out of. Every conversation feels like a debate and you leave feeling frustrated and misunderstood.
- You’re sad that you’re more like roommates than husband and wife. And to be honest, it’s roommates that don’t even like each other very much. Sometimes, you can cut the tension and silence with a knife. There is no team-work, and you become stressed with managing all of the house and family responsibilities.
- You’re fed up with the lack of RESPECT. You feel disrespected, and when you mention it, he has no clue what you are talking about. In fact, he’s pointing the finger back at you. He just doesn’t get how the things he does and says makes you upset and angry.
- You wish you could just communicate better. Communication? What communication? You saying something to him or asking a question and you get no response? It’s almost like you are talking to a brick wall. You’ve tried everything you can think of, and he’s just not opening up.
- You’re tired of feeling like everything else comes before you. Work. The kids. TV. Facebook. Quality time together is something that you once dreamed about, but now, there’s just no point. He’s made it clear that you are not a priority.
- You are starting to wonder if he even still loves you. There’s no affection, no compliments, no appreciation. You feel like he’s totally taking you for granted and that all you’ve given to this marriage doesn’t mean very much to him. You might as well be invisible on some days.
- You don’t know how to trust him again. You feel completely betrayed. The man you once put up on a pedestal has now broken your heart. He just expects you to move on like nothing has happened. But you can’t get past the pain and anger and have become a bitter and resentful woman.
- You want to be close, but you feel yourself just shutting down. You don’t really want to put forth and effort because he’s not putting forth and effort. You wonder, “why do I always have to be the one to…” fill in the blank with everything under the sun. It takes two to make a marriage work, and it feels like you are doing it by yourself.
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What if I could show you how to…
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Manage your frustrations and expectations so you can focus your attention on what matters most to you
Feel appreciated, loved and cherished in ways you didn’t even imagine
See how you can literally create the type of marriage and relationship with your husband that you want
Move through your communication issues in a way that leaves you feeling heard and understood
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I know you’ve been trying to make it work. But the same old books and same old counseling techniques have not made the shift you really need. It’s time to try something different.
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Aren’t you tired of watching others have the kind of marriage you are dreaming of?
Every time you go on social media, you see their posts and endless pictures with their date nights, family vacations, anniversaries and such. You see their smiling faces in the Love Your Spouse Challenge, and outpourings of love on birthdays.
And maybe you’re guilty of occasionally posting also. You want to play too, you want to have beautiful photos to share and look forward to all the likes and comments you’ll receive of how happy you and your husband look together. But deep down, you know, those photos would only be a snapshot in time, when most other days are filled with sadness, disappointments and conflict.
You look at what other people seem to have and wonder what went wrong. Why can’t your marriage be the same? Full of fun, love, and laughter?
You wonder if they are just better matched, with less differences and things to argue about. You secretly envy the attention and appreciation their husbands show, and the amazing life they are sharing with the world. Sure, they probably have their problems from time to time, but they work through them just fine.[/text_block]
Yep, some people make it look so easy, but this marriage thing is hard.
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What you don’t see is the heartache and frustrations they’ve had to work through.
The work they put in every day to be happy.
The way they’ve had to prioritize their marriage.
The new ways they learned to see each other.
The times they’ve had to step up and take responsibility for mistakes.
The communication skills they had to learn.
The investments they continually make in their relationship.
Most importantly, the help they’ve gotten along the way.
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As a relationship expert, I knew all the things I was supposed to be doing. I could have written a book on it all! But for some reason, it just wasn’t clicking.
I was spinning my wheels moving one step forward and four steps back. I’d try this and that, I’d read this book and that book, but it seemed like the information would disappear as quickly as I read. My husband and I continued in a bad pattern that had us headed for a very unhappy and undesirable future.[/text_block]
After just a few sessions, I had gained:
- A better mood and outlook on my marriage
- A more positive view of my husband and a renewed focus on all that I loved about him
- A greater appreciation for myself and what I needed to do to be happy
- The ability to change how I was feeling and to stop blaming my husband for everything
- A willingness to open my heart back up to him which led to the deepest connection we’ve ever had
- A new understanding of what forgiveness is and how to apply it to my life every day
- The mindset to literally create a happy marriage with my attitude and actions
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And my appreciation for relationship coaching was at an all-time high.
Not only did I have the experience of getting results for my clients, I now had my own REAL LIFE experience.
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Outside Perspective + A Step-by-Step Process.
That’s what you’ve been missing.
That’s what I can provide.
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If you want an extraordinary marriage that lights you up inside, get ready to create your happily ever after.
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Topics We’ll Cover Together
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- Communication – how to stop arguing about everything and understand the real issues that lead you to get so angry and frustrated with each other
- Connection – how to become close again where you not only get along but really look forward to and enjoy the time you spend together
- Expectations – how to deal with unmet expectations in a way that doesn’t leave you so disappointed and actually motivate your husband to do the things you ask
- Emotions – how to manage your feelings so you are more in control of how you respond to things that usually upset you
- Forgiveness – how to truly forgive and let go of the resentment that’s keeping you stuck in a miserable place
- Togetherness – how to feel like you are “in this together” where the effort you put forth is returned and you are in tune and supporting each other every day
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Over the course of several weeks we’ll work together to get you to a place where you are truly happy and excited about what’s next in your marriage. You’ll walk away with a hopeful and positive attitude and finally release the baggage that’s been keeping you from having the happy and loving marriage you want.
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Every woman wants a happy marriage. But few will actually take the steps required to get there.
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No one would intentionally and consciously create an unhappy marriage. But when you get stuck in bad habits and patterns, day by day, decision by decision, that’s what ends up happening.
The women who are able to get the most out of my help and support are willing to take an honest look at what’s happening, recognize that the process of improving their marriage brings a roller coaster of emotions, and are courageous enough to do the work.
While I offer several programs and products at a range of price points, this call will be best for women who are looking for 1-on-1 coaching that is personalized to their unique situation. They see the value of having a personal advisor and coach that can provide the focused time and attention that will enable them to turn things around in their marriage as quickly as possible.
This program focuses deeply on you, your needs, feelings and reactions to things happening in your marriage. Your husband may participate in sessions with you depending on the needs of your situation and his willingness to do so.
It is not a requirement that he participate if he’s not interested, and many of my clients have achieved phenomenal breakthroughs working with me alone.
Alternatively, if you are interested in having him in the sessions and he agrees to do so, we’ll all work together to turn your marriage around as quickly as possible.[/text_block]
This intensive and breakthrough coaching program is for:
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- Women who are tired of just wishing and hoping things will change, but are willing to learn the specific ways she can create positive change within herself.
- Women who are ready to give up the excuses and get the guidance and support necessary to make her marriage great.
- Women who know deep inside they could be a better wife and are open-minded enough to learn new skills and tools that will help her become her best self.
- Women who know that a happy, loving marriage is priceless and will invest her time and resources toward nurturing that most important relationship.
- Women who refuse to settle for a life of stress, tension and unhappiness at home, and takes the steps that will bring her peace, joy and contentment.
- Women who are in a financial position to invest her money toward a high-value coaching program that provides customized and intensive support
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This intensive and breakthrough coaching program is NOT for:
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- Women who have decided to just sit by and watch things go from bad to worse, waiting for their husband to do something before they take any positive action.
- Women who have an endless list of reasons for why their marriage is falling apart, but are not willing to put in the work necessary to turn the situation around.
- Women who are quick to point the finger at what their husband is doing wrong and are not interested in looking at the ways they can take responsibility for the issues they are facing.
- Women who think they marriage problems will just fix themselves and won’t invest time and money to get the necessary help and support they really need.
- Women who are okay with settling for a marriage that is unhappy, where they exist like roommates with no love, and affection.
- Women for whom an investment of money in personal coaching is just not an option right now
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If you think this is for you, let’s take the next step. Click the button below to schedule your call and to complete a brief survey describing your situation. I look forward to speaking with you!
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