LovExchange Program

Would you follow a plan if you knew it really worked?

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Imagine a lazy Saturday morning spent cooking pancakes together in the kitchen. The smell of bacon taking over the air. You gaze into your husband’s eyes with love as you enjoy your meal sitting next to each other at the table. Then later you steal little kisses and exchange uncontrollable smiles as you get dressed. You spend the afternoon in the park, holding hands and snuggled up close as you excitedly trade funny stories about what happened during the week. Later, you slip into your favorite black dress and go out to dinner where over candle light he shares how blessed he feels to have you in his life and how much he appreciates everything you do. When you leave he opens the car door for you, pulls you close and whispers, “I love you more than anything in this world.”

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It’s not Valentines day.
It’s not your anniversary.
No special occasion at all.

It’s just because you are an amazing wife who has a marriage that lights you up inside.

You have a husband who loves and adores you completely.

Who’s only mission is to provide for you, protect you, and make sure you’re the happiest woman in the world.

You may be wondering, “How did I get there? Nothing could be farther from my reality right now. In fact, my marriage is falling apart.”[/text_block]

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  • Giving gentile reminders and subtle hints about how you’d appreciate a little more romance and a little compliment every now and again. You want to feel wined and dined. You want to know that you matter and are still the most beautiful girl in the world to him. He should know this already, but you find yourself constantly trying to pull it out of him, with very little results.

 

  • Casually suggesting that you would like to have more quality time and more of his effort to show that you are a top priority. Some days it seems like everything else is more important than you. Especially work. And then there’s watching television. Would it kill him to come home a little early or ask you to join him on the couch to watch something you both would enjoy? Apparently yes, because it hasn’t happened.

 

  • Nicely asking for him to do his part to help out more around the house and to share the responsibilities of taking care of your children. You can’t remember the last time he washed a dish, cooked an egg, or even folded a hand towel. And it seems like you are a single parent with another adult child in the house who does basically nothing to make your life easier.

 

  • Giving direct instructions and specific details for how he can meet your expectations and do more to make you feel appreciated. But why should you even have to say anything?! Isn’t it obvious what he should be doing? You shouldn’t have to spend the time spelling everything out to him like he’s a child. And is it too much to ask for a “thank you” for all the ways you do for him and your family? It’s like he takes everything you do for granted.

 

  • Begging and pleading with him to talk more and share what’s on his mind so you can have more open and honest communication. You are so tired of getting the cold shoulder whenever you say something. It feels like you are talking to an unemotional brick wall. Communication is the key to everything. Yet you can’t get him to open up and talk about anything. Basically your communication is non-existent.

 

  • Demanding and insisting that things change for the better before it’s too late. You feel like a broken record. Why won’t he just do his part to make things better? You’ve asked to go to counseling and he won’t go. You tried to read a few marriage books, and he’s not interested. How are you supposed to fix things if he’s not willing to put forth the effort? It takes two to make a marriage work, and right now, it feels like you are doing this thing solo.

 

  • Criticizing, complaining and nagging him daily about what he’s doing wrong and how simple it should be to change. The list of things he should be doing different is soooo long. And you’re not even asking for that much. Just some common courtesy, to consider your feelings and needs, to act like you guys are a team and there to help each other out. Any man should be able to do that. But for some reason yours doesn’t care enough to try to make you happy. Clearly he only cares about himself and you hardly matter at all.

 

  • Praying that God would change his heart and help him become a husband that truly makes you happy. You know that God can do anything. You’ve prayed so much for your marriage, but nothing has changed. You believe God hears you, but your patience is starting to wear out. Your heart is broken and you need God to fix this situation. Like now.

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I know.  You’ve tried all of this and then some. But nothing has really worked for any significant period of time.

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So you stop.

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[text_block style=”style_1.png” align=”left” font_size=”28″]You stop needing his romantic gestures and you stop looking for him to compliment you.

You stop worrying about spending more time together and are no longer concerned if you are a priority to him.

Instead of asking him to help, you take on everything yourself, becoming overwhelmed and resentful that he still does nothing.

You tell yourself to have no expectations because he’s never going to meet them anyway. It’s not even worth wasting your breath to say anything.

You stop wanting to talk because it just leads to another argument and you feeling misunderstood. He’s so defensive and never really listens to what you have to say anyways.

You give up hope that things will get better and accept that your marriage is falling apart. You allow yourself to be miserable and see no way that it could be any better.

You’ve become this resentful, angry and frustrated wife who is so fed up you don’t even know what to do. At this point you’ve just decided to co-exist like roommates. You “do you” while he does whatever it is he does.

You’re so tired of praying about the same thing over and over again, you’re starting to think it’s just not God’s will for him to change.

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But really, if you are honest with yourself, on the inside is still that same woman who existed before things took this bad turn.

Deep inside, you still really love him and you still want your marriage to work. You just need to know what to do to really make it better. 

Truth be told, you still want those things listed above.

Badly. Desperately.

And they seem like the answer to turning your failing marriage into a fabulous one.

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[text_block style=”style_1.png” align=”left” font_size=”28″]I know it hurts to be disappointed day after day, and you feel foolish to have allowed your happiness to depend on what your husband thinks, says or does. You feel bad and wonder if you are asking for too much and if your expectations are just pipe dreams. You are so sad and often ask yourself what happened to the man you once knew and sometimes think you may have married the wrong person.

There is no shame in having a marriage that isn’t working anymore. There is no shame for becoming a wife who’s constantly unhappy and miserable all the time, wishing things were so much different…[/text_block]

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If you are willing to make a change in how you’ve been doing things. 

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It’s natural to say to yourself:

If he would only show more love and affection…

If he only appreciated all that I do…

If he was nicer and more fun to be around…

If he would only talk to me  and communicate his feelings…

things would be better.

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But what if there was a different answer?

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[op_liveeditor_element data-style=””][text_block style=”style_1.png” align=”left” font_size=”28″ font_color=”%23ffffff”]…the secret to getting all that you want from your husband  (more romance, doing fun things together, better communication) starts with you?

…you are the biggest factor in how much love, affection and attention you receive from him?

…you could actually inspire him to be the type of husband who takes the initiative, making sure he’s doing his part to help without even being asked?

…you actually determine how quickly your marriage improves and feels more like how it used to be when you first got together?

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It can happen. And I want to show you how.

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Introducing…

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I created this program just for you.

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It’s 21 days of coaching and expert advice to help you become the happy and loving wife you want to be so you can once again feel and receive your husband’s love and affection.

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  • Master the mindset skills every wife needs in order to have a marriage so happy and fulfilling you can’t stop bragging about it to all your friends

 

  • Overcome the disappointment and resentment that keeps you from experiencing true happiness and being able to see the little things that are going right

 

  • Develop the specific habits that will compel your husband to cater to your every need and show everyday how much he loves you

 

  • Experience a stronger bond and create deep intimacy you can feel through purposeful actions that help strengthen the connection to your husband in fun and simple ways

 

  • Learn a new way of thinking, being and doing so you can finally have your husband’s unconditional love, affection and appreciation

 

  • Develop a marriage mindset where your relationship brings you endless joy and is a constant source of pride and unconditional love

 

  • Learn the right approach to motivate your husband do more and put your needs and desires above his own

 

  • Become the best you can be as happy, loving and devoted wife who is adored by her husband

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Your thoughts lead your actions.

Learn how to train your mind to create the change you so desperately  want to see.

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Your Investment:

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Sign up for LovExchange TODAY for only

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$97

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Get Started Now!

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For a one-time investment of $97 you can dramatically improve your marriage and finally start feeling the love, affection and appreciation you’ve been craving from your husband. Sign up now so you don’t miss out on this great price!

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What’s Inside:

[text_block style=”style_1.png” align=”left” font_size=”28″]Inside this program you will learn:

  • The single most important strategy for training your mind to create instant happiness and contentment in your marriage no matter what
  • How just five minutes a day can turn you from feeling like roommates to feeling like soul mates
  • The daily habit you must develop in order to release resentment and see your husband as the exact man you want him to be

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What You Get:

[text_block style=”style_1.png” align=”left” font_size=”28″]21 Motivational Emails (delivered daily) that will inspire you to start your day with a positive outlook that empowers you to create what you’ve been dreaming of in your marriage

21 Thought-provoking Question Prompts that will transform your thinking and help you to become the happy and loving wife you really want to be

21 Love-sparking Challenges that provide quick and simple ways for you to to open up the lines of communication and bring you closer and more in sync with your husband

21 Mindshifting Graditude Exercises to keep you focused on what’s working so you can create more positive interactions with your husband[/text_block]

Here’s what other women have said about these strategies:

You’ve opened my eyes to things that are vitally important to strengthening my marriage. Sometimes we allow life to overshadow the small efforts made by our spouses and oftentimes take them for granted. I appreciate you for putting things in perspective. Continue encouraging couples with the wisdom and knowledge you’ve been blessed with.”

– Tracey, Married 25 years

“Thank you so much! I’m just going to say you would not believe how timely these challenges were for me as an individual, as well as for my husband and I as a couple. I had come to the realization that I personally, had allowed myself to stop doing the work. And so I took these challenges very personally…It made me focus more on how I could please him so that I get what I want in return. And it works, lol (that’s a little awful, but it’s the truth)!”

– Janele, Married 3 years

OMG! I guess this really works! My husband told me he loved me and we had a wonderful weekend together spending time with our children and going to church. Thank you so much!”

– Christiana, Married 10 years

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Get The LovExchange Program NOW for only $97

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Don’t let another day of feeling unhappy and lonely in your marriage pass you by. You deserve to be loved and cherished like the amazing woman you are. Sign up now!

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • q-iconHow do I access the program?

    This is a virtual program, meaning, you will receive materials electronically and can go at your own pace.

    When you sign up today, you will receive a Welcome Email that will provide you with all the program details. Each day thereafter, over the course of 21 days, you’ll receive all program materials in your email inbox.

    You’ll also have a LovExchange Member Page where you can access all materials should you miss an email. You’ll have lifetime access to the program, so you can log in to the Member Page at anytime to review the content and practice new skills again and again.

  • q-iconHow much time will this take? I’m already so busy!

    The daily email messages will take you 5-10 minutes to read and will be well worth every second!! The other daily activities, challenges and exercises can all be completed within 10-15 minutes.

    So essentially, we’re talking about 20 minutes a day of your focused attention and intentional effort. The material in this program is power-packed and with just a few minutes a day, you really can turn your marriage into one that’s much more loving and happier.

  • q-iconWill this really help me? What results should I expect?

    Like with anything, you will get out of this program what you put into it. If you give your focused attention and intentional effort, you will see things change for the better in your marriage. The questions, exercises and challenge activities all use proven methods to help couples reconnect, rebuild bonds that have been broken and open up the lines of communication.

    If you have an open mind and follow the program closely, you should expect to feel better about your relationship with your husband, you should experience your marriage as a source of love and happiness in your life, you should have a more positive outlook on issues and be able to come up with more creative solutions to those issues, you should become a happier, more patient, understanding and kind wife, who is able to receive more love, affection and appreciation from your husband.

  • q-iconWhat if the program just doesn’t work for me? Can I get my money back?

    I’m so confident this program will help you to improve your marriage, I’m offering 100% money-back guarantee. Get started today and try it for yourself!

    If you’ve truly given it your best try and find that there is absolutely nothing different in your marriage, I’d be more than happy to issue a refund. You can withdraw from the program within 14 days and get 100% of your money back. Just email me at chavonne@berelateable.com and I’ll process your refund right away.

  • q-iconWhat about my husband? Does he need to participate?

    LovExchange is designed for you to complete on your own. The materials, content and questions are designed to create a specific type of experience for women.

    However, there are exercises and activities that will involve your husband. These can be completed with or without him knowing you have actually signed up for a program. You’ll have the chance to initiate conversations or actions that he can respond to without him needing to officially be part of the program.

    At the same time, if you would LIKE for your husband to play more of an active role in this program, that option is also available and where it makes sense, he can participate in a more direct way.

  • q-iconWhat if I have other questions not answered here?

    Feel free to contact me directly! I’m at chavonne@berelateable.com

Nothing would make me happier than to guide you to creating a marriage and relationship with your husband that you love. I know these strategies work and I can’t wait for the opportunity to show you how to put them to use in your own relationship. See you inside LovExchange!

~Dr. Chavonne Perotte


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