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Connect4Love 4-Day Challenge

12 Jun 16
Chavonne Perotte




Imagine feeling just as in love as you did on the day you said “I DO”…

Imagine being able to enjoy every second you get to spend with your husband…

Imagine having fun again, laughing with the man who really is your best friend…

Imagine feeling closer than ever before and being able to talk to each other about anything…

Well, it’s yours to have.

And it starts with rebuilding the connection to your husband.

It just takes a little effort and a plan that works.

I’ve created that plan.

Join me for the CONNECT4LOVE 4-Day Challenge.

Each day you will receive FUN and meaningful challenge activities that are designed to strengthen the bond between you and your husband. They are simple and easy to incorporate into your already busy schedule.





But unfortunately, we are just taught that love is a feeling.

That quickening of your heart, the butterflies in your stomach – a high that is beyond words.

However, once you realize that love is intentional, deliberate and on purpose, you see how taking loving actions can give you the feeling.

If you move closer when you want to pull away…

If you open your heart when it’s easier to shut down…

If you show the love you desperately want to receive…

You’ll find that feeling of love will once again overtake you.


Inside the  CONNECT4LOVE 4-Day Challenge you’ll:

**Receive quick, simple and FUN ideas for reconnecting with your husband each day that have a BIG impact

**Learn the most effective ways to rebuild your relationship through tiny steps that really matter

**Discover how to make time for your marriage when you are already overwhelmed by so much to do

**Become part of a supportive community of over 1,000 other women who are taking action to make their marriage the best it can be




Hundreds of women have already participated and have seen what a difference it can make. Here’s what they’ve said:

“Thanks so much for offering this challenge. You’ve opened my eyes to things that are vitally important to strengthening my marriageSometimes we allow life to overshadow the small efforts made by our spouses and oftentimes take them for granted. I appreciate you for putting things in perspective. Continue encouraging couples with the wisdom and knowledge you’ve been blessed with.”

“Thank you so much! I’m just going to say you would not believe how timely these challenges were for me as an individual, as well as for my husband and I as a couple. I had come to the realization that I personally, had allowed myself to stop doing the work. And so I took these challenges very personally…It made me focus more on how I could please him so that I get what I want in return. And it works, lol (that’s a little awful, but it’s the truth)!”

“OMG! I guess this really works! My husband told me he loved me and we had a wonderful weekend together spending time with our children and going to church. Thank you so much!”

“My husband said now he’s not the only one fighting for this marriage…we are now fighting together to keep our marriage strong…this one of the sweetest nights we’ve shared in a LONG time. We can’t thank you enough for this marriage challenge!!”

“He was surprised and it melted my heart because he had a huge smile on his face and said how much he loves me and don’t won’t to loose his wife. We had a long and beautiful conversation without arguing. I think we headed down he right road. Thanks so much for this jump-start.”




Today, I want you to DO something.
Be intentional.

No matter where you find yourself in your marriage, rebuilding the connection is a CRITICAL step in repairing the relationship. It’s the connection that got you together in the first place. And it’s the connection that will keep you motivated to making things work, even now.

Join the CONNECT4LOVE 4-Day Challenge and receive FUN challenges that will help you to reconnect and remember why you fell in love in the first place.





  1. Sonya June 17, 2016 at 12:07 pm Reply

    Oh my God,it’s only been a year and my husband and I or not connecting at all. We be a lot of work done. He has threaten to go cheat many times he don’t have sex(which he want everyday),he don’t want to be married and he think making love is what keeps a relationship strong.
    I asked him many times do he wants to go talk to someone neutral to see where all this hate toward me is coming from. I admit some time I be tried and don’t want to have sex everyday but he basing our relationship on the sex. Communication is the key to our marriage working an we don’t have that any more.

    • Chavonne Perotte June 18, 2016 at 5:21 pm Reply

      Hey Sonya! I’m so sorry things are not going well in your marriage. I think doing this challenge will open the doors for you and your husband to feel comfortable communicating with each other. I’m so glad you signed up! I also think that part of the reason you are less interested in sex is because you are not feeling close to him. You are looking to feel loved and appreciated. You want to feel like you are connected more than just when you are having sex. The way to do that is to have fun together doing things that help you express how you feel about each other. That’s what helped you fall in love in the first place. It was so easy in the beginning. But over time we stop doing those things that made us fall in love. The challenge will help you get back to doing those things. So get ready! If you keep up the 4 days you’ll start to feel differently about your husband.

  2. Anonymous June 17, 2016 at 9:07 pm Reply

    Sounds Great!!

    • Chavonne Perotte June 18, 2016 at 5:22 pm Reply

      So glad you signed up! It will be a lot of fun!!

  3. Angel adams July 22, 2016 at 4:34 am Reply

    What God has join together no man can tear apart. We should keep each prayed up. Glad to join the challenge

    • Chavonne Perotte July 22, 2016 at 10:25 pm Reply

      Thank you!! Yes, support is so critical. I hope you enjoy the challenge!

  4. Sarabi July 23, 2016 at 2:24 am Reply

    Looking forward to the challenge.

    • Chavonne Perotte July 23, 2016 at 8:52 pm Reply

      Yesss!! It’s going to be A LOT of fun! Keep me posted on how it goes for you!!

  5. Tea July 23, 2016 at 3:51 am Reply

    I have bern married 5 yrs now and love my husband just as much today as i did the day we met if not more but we have a hard time finding time for just us without the children or other extended family. I want to find some romantic things to do outside the house thats enjoyable and fun something we wont do on a regular basis.

    • Chavonne Perotte July 23, 2016 at 8:54 pm Reply

      Yes, finding time to spend together is sooo hard. This challenge will give you simple ideas that can easily be done in 10 minutes or less. It’s about the quality of the time you spend together, not necessarily the quantity! I hope you’ll find these activities can fit into your busy schedules! I know it’s hard, but it’s definitely worth it!! So glad you signed up!!

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